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Dr. Lisa Xochitl Vallejos
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May 27, 2021

Confessions of a psychotherapist: Husband edition

What your wives tell me that they may not be telling you Husbands, your friendly neighborhood psychotherapist checking in with something you desperately need to hear. I talk to your wives every day. They are tired. Every single wife I work with comes in with some variation of the same…

Marriage

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Confessions of a psychotherapist: Husband edition
Confessions of a psychotherapist: Husband edition
Marriage

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May 26, 2021

Unrealistic Expectations & the Rebecca Renner Saga

5 things she probably wishes she’d known Last week, writer Rebecca Renner posted the above photo, thus launching the saga that would capture the attention of Twitter for the next couple of days. …

Rebecca Renner

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Unrealistic Expectations & the Rebecca Renner Saga
Unrealistic Expectations & the Rebecca Renner Saga
Rebecca Renner

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Apr 15, 2021

Don’t Fall for the ‘Twin Flame’ Trap
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I'm cited in this article and I think you might misunderstand my stance.

I'm cited in this article and I think you might misunderstand my stance. I am not a believer in the common understanding of Twin Flames. I have been speaking out against these toxic dynamics for years and have been encouraging people to examine their toxic behaviors and beliefs. Please feel free to look at my articles to see my stance, which is far more in alignment with yours than how it's depicted in this piece.

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Feb 20, 2021

10 signs it’s time to leave your toxic parents

The pain of making the choice to leave behind a toxic parental relationship is indescribable. After all, even as adults, we still want our parents to be good to us. We want them to be proud. …

Parents

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10 signs it’s time to leave your toxic parents
10 signs it’s time to leave your toxic parents
Parents

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Feb 3, 2021

Choose a love that chooses you

Once again, you find yourself looking at the phone, wondering when or if your love is going to call. You would never admit that you are waiting for them to reach out, because that is what those other people do. …

Love

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Choose a love that chooses you
Choose a love that chooses you
Love

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Jun 24, 2020

Dear White Liberals…

You don’t know as much as you think you do Hey there, You don’t know me but I know you. I see you everywhere right now. In the last few weeks, a whole bunch of you have suddenly awakened to the realities of racism in our world, in the US…

Social Justice

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Dear White Liberals…
Dear White Liberals…
Social Justice

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Mar 21, 2020

What Coronavirus can teach us about life

What Coronavirus can teach us about life If you’re feeling extra horny, or romantic, or loving, don’t be surprised or ashamed. We are facing something most of us have never seen. Everything is uncertain. Nothing is stable. People we love will be sick or worse. Now is the time —…

Corona Virus

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What Coronavirus can teach us about life
What Coronavirus can teach us about life
Corona Virus

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Nov 25, 2019

Toxic Twin Flame beliefs that are keeping you stuck

…and you may not even know it. I’ve worked with thousands of Twin Flames or people who identify as twin flames over the last few years. If there is one thing I can guarantee you, it’s that what is being taught as “twin flame” is often incorrect, and keeps people…

Love

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Toxic Twin Flame beliefs that are keeping you stuck
Toxic Twin Flame beliefs that are keeping you stuck
Love

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Aug 5, 2019

Twin Flames: When To Let Go

When it comes to Twin Flames, one of the biggest questions is when to let go and move on. Some people believe that in these soul connections, there is never a right time to let go. In one sense, they are right in that if we truly have a soul…

Love

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Twin Flames: When To Let Go
Twin Flames: When To Let Go
Love

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Jun 11, 2019

Why I’m no longer using the Twin Flame label

I am leaving the twin flame label behind. I know that may be shocking to many of you because I have been working with “twin flames” and sharing twin flame information for the last couple of years. …

Spirituality

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Why I’m no longer using the Twin Flame label
Why I’m no longer using the Twin Flame label
Spirituality

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